Washing your child
A daily ritual, bathtime is the perfect opportunity for you to spend one-on-one time with your child and shower him with hugs and affection. To make this a pleasurable experience and avoid any tantrums, follow these few tips:
Prepare everything you need to wash your child beforehand – a clean terry towel, soap, nappies, plus the clothes to dress your child in after his bath.
As soon as you have heated the bath water to 37°C, turn off the telephone.
Soap your child from the head to toe – from the cleanest to the dirtiest part. Washing your child with your bare hands is a chance to caress and massage him and help him relax and experience skin-to-skin contact.
When your child is in the bath, sing a nursery rhyme or tell a story.
When you remove him from the bath, dry your child without rubbing his skin and don’t forget the tiny folds around his neck and in between his toes.
As your child begins to relax, cut his toenails (use small scissors with rounded tips) and clean his ears (never in the ear canal) and nose if runny.
Once dressed, your child is ready for a day of excitement or a wonderful night’s sleep!
Toilet-training
Toilet-training is not easy for a child. Just like walking or sleeping, going to the toilet is not just a matter of training but also a physiological reflex, as he needs to learn how to control his sphincter muscles.
Doctors pinpoint this ability at around 18 months. If your child is potty-trained earlier, it's simply a matter of chance. Don’t force your child. Just help him through this stage and try a few pearls of wisdom from experienced mums:
Explain to your child that keeping clean is part of becoming a big boy or girl. Swapping his nappy for a lovely pair of pants might help convince him.
Just because your little one is looking slightly tense, there is no need to rush him straight onto the potty. He may wee in fear before getting there.
Choose a simple potty that won’t be confused with a toy. Your child needs reassurance and encouragement, and shouldn’t feel any pressure if he cannot go. Never leave your child on the potty for more than 10 minutes as this will seem like a punishment.
To help your child know what’s expected of him, avoid alternating between nappy-on and nappy-off days. Every once in awhile, let your child roam around with a bare bum to help him differentiate between feeling dry and wet.
Avoid comparing your child with others as each develops at his own pace.
There are lots of advice on how to toilet-train your child, but it is only with your patience, understanding and encouragement that your child will pass through this stage successfully.